HTTPRoute `status` field not populated at all, or takes a very long time about linkerd2 HOT 9 OPEN

{"timestamp":"2024-03-21T12:00:12.113301Z","level":"ERROR","fields":{"message":"Failed to patch HTTPRoute","namespace":"my-sandbox","route":"GroupKindName { group: \"policy.linkerd.io\", kind: \"HTTPRoute\", name: \"controller-route-user-476722\" }","error":"ApiError: httproutes.policy.linkerd.io \"controller-route-user-476722\" not found: NotFound (ErrorResponse { status: \"Failure\", message: \"httproutes.policy.linkerd.io \\\"controller-route-user-476722\\\" not found\", reason: \"NotFound\", code: 404 })"},"target":"linkerd_policy_controller_k8s_status::index","spans":[{"name":"status::Controller"}]}
{"timestamp":"2024-03-21T12:00:12.430386Z","level":"ERROR","fields":{"message":"Failed to patch HTTPRoute","namespace":"my-sandbox","route":"GroupKindName { group: \"policy.linkerd.io\", kind: \"HTTPRoute\", name: \"controller-route-user-5186\" }","error":"ApiError: httproutes.policy.linkerd.io \"controller-route-user-5186\" not found: NotFound (ErrorResponse { status: \"Failure\", message: \"httproutes.policy.linkerd.io \\\"controller-route-user-5186\\\" not found\", reason: \"NotFound\", code: 404 })"},"target":"linkerd_policy_controller_k8s_status::index","spans":[{"name":"status::Controller"}]}

apiVersion: policy.linkerd.io/v1beta3
kind: HTTPRoute
metadata:
  creationTimestamp: '2024-03-21T13:09:58Z'
  generation: 1
  managedFields:
    - apiVersion: policy.linkerd.io/v1beta3
      fieldsType: FieldsV1
      fieldsV1:
        f:spec:
          f:parentRefs: {}
          f:rules: {}
      manager: fabric8
      operation: Apply
      time: '2024-03-21T13:09:58Z'
    - apiVersion: policy.linkerd.io/v1beta3
      fieldsType: FieldsV1
      fieldsV1:
        f:status:
          .: {}
          f:parents: {}
      manager: policy.linkerd.io
      operation: Update
      subresource: status
      time: '2024-03-21T13:49:16Z'
  name: controller-route-user-5186
  namespace: my-sandbox
  resourceVersion: '648189883'
  uid: d350c128-3751-4b20-8f85-d0959ffa6c21
  selfLink: >-
    /apis/policy.linkerd.io/v1beta3/namespaces/my-sandbox/httproutes/controller-route-user-5186
status:
  parents:
    - conditions:
        - lastTransitionTime: '2024-03-21T13:14:16Z'
          message: ''
          reason: Accepted
          status: 'True'
          type: Accepted
        - lastTransitionTime: '2024-03-21T13:14:16Z'
          message: ''
          reason: ResolvedRefs
          status: 'True'
          type: ResolvedRefs
      controllerName: linkerd.io/policy-controller
      parentRef:
        group: core
        kind: Service
        name: my-controller
        namespace: my-sandbox
spec:
  parentRefs:
    - group: core
      kind: Service
      name: my-controller
      port: 5051
  rules:
    - backendRefs:
        - group: core
          kind: Service
          name: my-app-0
          port: 3004
          weight: 1
      matches:
        - headers:
            - name: x-user-id
              type: Exact
              value: '5186'
          path:
            type: PathPrefix
            value: /

{"timestamp":"2024-04-15T08:18:19.231788Z","level":"ERROR","fields":{"message":"Failed to send HTTPRoute patch","id.namespace":"pangolin","route":"GroupKindName { group: \"policy.linkerd.io\", kind: \"HTTPRoute\", name: \"controller-route-user-4288\" }","error":"no available capacity"},"target":"linkerd_policy_controller_k8s_status::index","spans":[{"name":"status::Index"}]}

2024-04-15T13:53:09+03:00 {"timestamp":"2024-04-15T10:53:09.703054Z","level":"ERROR","fields":{"message":"Failed to send HTTPRoute patch","id.namespace":"pangolin","route":"GroupKindName { group: \"policy.linkerd.io\", kind: \"HTTPRoute\", name: \"controller-route-user-0123\" }","error":"no available capacity"},"target":"linkerd_policy_controller_k8s_status::index","spans":[{"name":"httproutes.policy.linkerd.io"}]}