add gorm metric stats

Describe the solution you'd like
buildquery.go:86
BuildQuery 函数 看起来仅支持构建 and 连接符的sql, 能否支持 or 呢

Describe alternatives you've considered

   Cond struct {
   // Cs MySQL中条件连接符，常量限制于 [AND,OR..]
   Cs Constant
   // Op MySQL中查询条件，如like,=,in
   Op string
   // Val 查询条件对应的值
   Val interface{}
	}

gorm.io/plugin/dbresolver

......\pkg\mod\gorm.io\plugin\[email protected]\dbresolver.go:139:18: cannot use map[string]gorm.Stmt{} (value of type map[string]gorm.Stmt) as map[string]*gorm.Stmt value in struct literal

github.com/glebarez/sqlite

......\pkg\mod\github.com\glebarez\[email protected]\sqlite.go:101:22: invalid operation: limit.Limit > 0 (mismatched types *int and untyped int)
......\pkg\mod\github.com\glebarez\[email protected]\sqlite.go:102:24: invalid operation: limit.Limit <= 0 (mismatched types *int and untyped int)
......\pkg\mod\github.com\glebarez\[email protected]\sqlite.go:103:21: cannot use -1 (untyped int constant) as *int value in assignment
......\pkg\mod\github.com\glebarez\[email protected]\sqlite.go:106:39: cannot use limit.Limit (variable of type *int) as int value in argument to strconv.Itoa

sql注释中加入trace id。方便在sql慢查询中，找到是哪个业务影响

目前最新版本egorm的sqlserver依赖是

gorm.io/driver/sqlserver v1.3.2

取自:
https://raw.githubusercontent.com/ego-component/egorm/master/go.mod

该版本，存在语法错误，影响项目编译, 语法错误发生在
https://github.com/go-gorm/sqlserver/blob/1648e291104c3e1882e40674fa9941ad46e57f27/sqlserver.go#L90C1-L90C1

问题原因，是

// limit.Limit 是指针类型 需要 *limit.Limit 和0作比较，而不是 指针直接和0作比较

目前该问题，在v1.4.0是修复好的
https://github.com/go-gorm/sqlserver/blob/v1.4.0/sqlserver.go#L90

修复建议，对egorm的go.mod，修改为 v1.4.0 (仅对该问题进行了调研，对其他变更的兼容影响未经测试)